Jennifer Lehr, MFT - Blog

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Learning to Love the Hard Way

Posted on Friday, May 15th, 2020 at 1:55 pm.

Eventually, after the divorce, I married again. A second marriage for both of us. Finally, an adult. Two adults. I find connection, nourishment, and emotional safety that I could not have dreamt of before. We learned to love again.

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The Numinosity of Love

Posted on Thursday, March 12th, 2020 at 2:34 pm.

When we get caught, there is a reason I am caught. Watching, I wait. Will they get together? How does this keep happening? They love each other. Please. This is the power of love. I have been caught before. This time it is with Anne with an E. After 27 1/2 episodes of misses and frustration,…   Read more »

Tornado depicting the impact of addiction on relationships

When Love Isn’t Enough

Posted on Friday, December 27th, 2019 at 12:14 pm.

The betrayal of addiction in relationships First published in P.S. I Love You, a Medium.com publication on December 23rd, 2019.    Thank you for reaching out and letting me know you are doing well. I appreciate your apology. When I read your message, pain erupted through me. What happened between us in the past was…   Read more »

Perfect life

My Perfect Life

Posted on Tuesday, October 15th, 2019 at 9:59 am.

For as long as I can remember, I’ve had this idea of a perfect life. Maybe because as a child, teenager and young adult, I felt forsaken by God, I felt trapped in my actual life. I didn’t know how to get from the life I had to the untarnished and perfect life I wanted.

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What Is Your Canvas? Who Are You Creating?

Posted on Tuesday, September 17th, 2019 at 9:11 am.

Art is more than what we produce but is reflected in the quality of the life we create and the quality of our being.

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