About Me

Jennifer Lehr, MFT is an author, Marriage and Family Therapist and the founder and creator of WeConcile® – an affordable online DIY relationship restoration program for couples. Creating WeConcile has been an over 10-year labor of love for Jennifer.

As a relationship expert, Jennifer specializes in educating couples on the relationship skills they need to build a solid, connected and loving partnership.

She has written about relational health and wellness as well as healing and living our best lives for various print and online publications. She has written and presented for GoodTherapy.org, a CE course for therapists, Clinician Use of WeConcile® to Facilitate Couples Work. She is on the Medical Advisory Board for LoveWellness.co

I grew up with three siblings, a father who was an illustrator and an artist and a mother who was a social worker and very ‘practical.’ Guess I got some of both. As a child, I loved books, animals and anything creative.  As I grew up and followed a creative path, it became clear to me that despite facility in the areas of art and creativity, I wasn’t so good at standing up for myself or taking care of myself in relationship to others.   I found myself unable to be fully empowered and after a particularly difficult relationship, I entered a ‘dark night of the soul.’ Reevaluating my priorities, I began to focus on a variety of learnings, teachings, workshops, and therapy.  I wanted more than anything to have full ownership of myself, to be able to walk through the world without fear and in full possession of my value as a human and spiritual being.  As a result, my life has been focused on personal transformation and growth for many years. This focus has become what my life is about and is now what I continue to value and learn, as well as give back to the world. I have integrated the experiences I have gained navigating life’s challenges into my work – my clinical skills and my writing. I love the work of assisting others in moving from pain or frustration to greater empowerment, satisfying relationships, and joyful lives.

How and why did I become a therapist? 

Read this article: The Little Black Bag.

DIY Relationship Restoration Programs


CE Course

Print Articles

Online Articles


Interviews and Podcasts



Advisory Boards


MA, Counseling Psychology with Emphasis in Depth Psychology, Pacifica Graduate Institute, Montecito CA 2002

Additional Training and Certifications

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (Alliant International University)

Gestalt Therapy Institute of Los Angeles (GTILA)

The Saturday Center for Psychotherapy

An Adventure in Intimacy Workshop with Hedy and Yumi Schleifer

Hold Me Tight Workshop with Sue Johnson

Domestic Violence Training Certification

The Southern California Society of Clinical Hypnosis

SoulCollage® Facilitator

Healing the Indigo Child Workshop

Soul Memory Discovery Facilitator

Professional Memberships

California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)

International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT)

American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT)

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, California
License #MFC 41726



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