http://www.jenniferlehrmft.com/healing-tips/when-love-stops-working-getting-it-going-again/ Jennifer Lehr MFT - Psychotherapy, Couples Counseling & Life Coaching Sun, 01 Jan 2012 04:02:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.2 http://www.jenniferlehrmft.com/healing-tips/when-love-stops-working-getting-it-going-again/comment-page-1/#comment-15697 Jason Sun, 27 Nov 2011 17:19:59 +0000 http://96.9.52.201/?p=249#comment-15697 This is exactly where my wife is at. Unfortunately after keeping her traumatic relationship to herself, and not addressing it 5 years ago on the advice of a marriage counsellor, she now is, but somehow she has created a block with me that makes it too much to address her past and place with me at the same time. As a result we are about to begin a seperation. After months of doing all I can to be supportive and the last month where she has begun to explore the past, I find myself an unintended victim and have no idea of what happens next.. It took me a long time to see how real this was and wish there was a way to support her through it and remain together. This is exactly where my wife is at. Unfortunately after keeping her traumatic relationship to herself, and not addressing it 5 years ago on the advice of a marriage counsellor, she now is, but somehow she has created a block with me that makes it too much to address her past and place with me at the same time. As a result we are about to begin a seperation. After months of doing all I can to be supportive and the last month where she has begun to explore the past, I find myself an unintended victim and have no idea of what happens next.. It took me a long time to see how real this was and wish there was a way to support her through it and remain together.

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